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This is how you make iPhones child-friendly
25.7.2023
Translation: Elicia Payne
Class chats, homework help, social exchange: in various areas during childhood smartphones are already a part of life. But what can you do to keep your child away from inappropriate content on their iPhone?
Around the age of 30, «it hits». Colleague A is going to be a mom, friend B is going to be a dad, and even your older sibling is knee-deep in nappies. Last but not least, it potentially «hits» you too. Whilst the early years are dominated by stuffed toys and building blocks, soon after starting school, the topic of mobile devices arises.
The good old homework book has already become obsolete in some places. Teachers are taking advantage of digitisation and communicating in chats. And once the ABCs are in place, communication with school friends will follow. As a result, this increases the risk of using other, possibly dubious services and websites in addition to Google, YouTube, and TikTok. With that comes the in-game purchases, phishing and other dangers too.
But how can you make sure that your offspring aren’t – voluntarily or involuntarily – looking at some nonsense on the net? Spending every evening browsing through their phone is no solution. The iPhone has a few options to help you navigate this which I’ll tell you all about in this guide.
The A-Z of child safety
With its phones, Apple has made provisions. Under the somewhat cryptic name «Screen Time» hides a whole bunch of settings which can help you make the iPhone child-friendly. You find the menu in settings.
Daily Average/ See All Activity
If you want to get a general overview of your child’s usage, Apple provides you with one. Right on the start screen of the Screen Time menu, you’ll find a bar chart for the current week. This includes the average usage time and a percentage comparison to the previous week.
If you tap on «See All Activity» underneath, you can check the daily usage time and also see how much time has been spent on which app.
A break from the screen
So that the phone doesn’t rob your little ones of sleep or distract them from their homework, you can set up Downtime.
Under «Screen Time» > «Downtime» you can decide which day of the week you want them to have a break from their phone and for how long. During this time, only the apps you have allowed to remain on will work. If you haven’t allowed any of them to work, they’ll still get telephone calls. You can choose which apps are allowed and who your child can call under «Screen time» > «Always Allowed».
Block apps (temporarily)
It’s undisputed. The knowledge of the internet has certainly helped with problems. Learning how to use it early on is also useful.
I’ve also heard in my circles that teachers require the students to access the internet for certain school activities. Okay. But then, how do you prevent them from consuming half an hour of Minecraft videos when all they should be doing is googling capital cities?
With «App Limits». Under «Screen Time» > «App Limits» you can set a daily time limit for each installed app. Select the app, tap «Next», set the duration, tap «Set», then tap «Add».
Communication – but with who?
It can happen quickly: the number appears somewhere on the internet. Then health insurance companies call a 10-year-old child, or a call centre wants to get rid of its electric blankets. The solution for this – and of course for outgoing calls – are communication limits. In the same menu under «Screen time», you can manage who your child can contact or who they can receive calls and messages from.
Important: your child can always call known emergency numbers. These numbers can’t be blocked.
Websites, app purchases and games
When you’re young, it may well be different. But as children get older, it’s often the case that their knowledge of technology is more advanced than their parents. So it’s good that you can block apps. But what about when your offspring download something off the App Store themselves? Or when they can see the content via browser – e.g. TikTok?
To prevent this from happening, you can go to «Content & Privacy Restrictions». This can also be found under «Screen Time». In «iTunes & App Store Purchases» you can stop new apps from being installed and all apps from being deleted. You can also disable In-app Purchases.
In doing so, Apple is not only countering a potential financial problem, but is also trying to put a stop to the loot box and pay-to-win problem (PDF in German). You can also prevent purchases from the app store by enabling a password entry for each purchase.
«Allowed Apps» does exactly what it says on the tin. Which apps are generally allowed to be used and which can’t be? If the device runs under the same Apple ID as your own iPhone, your app downloads may find their way onto your child’s device.
These changes can also be made in the Game Center. You can prevent your child being connected to strangers in multiplayer mode and from receiving private messages from these people in-game. Similarly, for some games there’s a «Nearby Multiplayer» mode. This checks if there’s anyone playing the same game nearby and then enables a multiplayer game. You can also disable this option if you want to prevent your child from coming into contact with strangers.
Last but not least, there’s also data protection. This is also located in the «Content & Privacy Restrictions» menu. There you can define, for example, which apps are allowed to track activity or which settings in which apps can be changed by your child. If you prohibit an app from tracking, the developer can’t create user profiles. However, if the app contains advertising, the ads will be played randomly.
Family Sharing
The heart of the family Apple-verse is Family Sharing. Thanks to this, you can add your family members and their Apple IDs to Family Sharing. Up to five more members can be added. If the family constellation is larger than six people, it gets complicated. But what does Family Sharing actually do and how can I set this up? I’ll show you. First, go to Settings, tap your Apple ID, and select «Family Sharing». Follow the set-up.
The second option is called «Share Location». You can specify whether you only want to share a location with certain family members or automatically with everyone. Obviously the same applies to children. The devices can then be located. This can be helpful if someone has taken the wrong bus or the iPhone has been lost.
Sharing your iCloud+ plan with the family is the third menu item. Share your Cloud storage with the family for free. Note: despite sharing the storage, they can’t see your personal content, such as photos and documents. You can’t see theirs either. You can also use family members for two-factor authentication. For example, if you forget the password of your Apple ID, a recovery code will appear on the phone of your «trusted contact».
Furthermore, you and your family can share subscriptions for free under «Subscriptions». If you have a paid app, your family members can use it for free. As the organiser, you can also share your payment methods and your purchases. Under «Purchase Sharing» you can determine if they can share your purchases (apps, books, videos) and/or if they can even use your payment method to buy things themselves from the App Store.
Add family members
In settings, click on your Apple ID and then on «Family Sharing». After that, click the small blue cross in the top-right corner. Select the contacts you want to add (up to five).
There are four types of members you can select:
The selected contact will then receive a message with an invitation. When they tap on Join, they’re in the group. Done.
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I've been tinkering with digital networks ever since I found out how to activate both telephone channels on the ISDN card for greater bandwidth. As for the analogue variety, I've been doing that since I learned to talk. Though Winterthur is my adoptive home city, my heart still bleeds red and blue.
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